Which type are you?
In my healing work with groups and individuals I’ve found that there are 3 main life paths that lead to the three main reasons people seek out spirituality or healing. You might find yourself in one of these descriptions, or you might find that you fit more than one. This is not an exhaustive list, but these are the ones that have been sticking out to me lately. Let’s get started.

- THE “DO-NOT-PASS-GOER”.
This person has one issue that’s keeping them stuck. This might be you if you find yourself unable to advance in a particular goal or area of life. Things like: getting pregnant, getting the promotion, finding love, getting over an ex. Not everyone is meant to purify and advance every aspect of their life. This person has to DEAL with something important before they can proceed. This THING that needs dealing is usually linked to something that happened in their past. If this is you, you will need help connecting to this part of your past in a compassionate and merciful way. Because advancing your life in the way you want to will require that you look at a part of your past first in order to advance into the version of yourself that you aren’t at the moment. Healing results in you finally being able to easily pass go OR you might find that the desire you had disappears now that you’ve dealt with the thing from your past.
- THE “FREE WILL-ER”
This one is arguably the toughest, but with great pain lies great reward. This archetype is characterized with a notable, major life event that collapses (often experienced as “ruins”) life as you know it. This can be a death, divorce, the ending of something externally, OR an internal sense of finality, like I’M SO TIRED OF THIS SH**! This kicks off a healing process with the objective of realigning you to your true life path. The path that you were destined to be on, but because of free will, you didn’t get on the path. You were probably nudged, encouraged, invited over and over, but you just missed the calls. The lucky ones of this archetype find help before the full collapse to help ease the inevitable blow. Healing results in fully integrating the “collapse” and embracing your true life’s path.
- THE “STUDENT SEEKER”
This archetype has great wisdom within, but needs help tapping into this wisdom and applying it to their own life. These people are usually very intelligent, and they know it. Student Seeker types need periodic healing sessions to help them find their center again and again. Healing results in this person feeling confident in their decisions, realigning to their internal wisdom and walking forward with their head held high.